Resources For Those Who Had Traumatic Experiences

The Village was a big place, and spanned some 15 years of time. It is easy to see why an estimated one thousand or more children would have dramatically different experiences. There are former residents who remember the Village as the best thing that could have been a part of their lives and support the good work of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace. Unfortunately, there are some who recall their stay at the Village to be a traumatic time in their lives due incidents of physical and sexual abuse by some adults. This page is not intended to acuse any former staff of wrong doing, but to offer emotional support and closure to a segment of alumni who feel they need these resources for their personal growth.

This website does not directly or indirectly state that their was, nor does it deny there was child abuse at the St. Joseph's Village. It would be deemed libelous for this website to state or imply that there was abuse prior to any court conviction.
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Submitting Links
You are welcome to suggest links for this resource page. provided they are directly related to issues of orphanages, finding birth relatives, coping with being adopted, or working/living at St Joseph's Village. Publication is the sole descretion of the editor. We DO NOT normally reply to all request letters and publication may take several weeks as this section is rarely updated. Check back here to see if your submission is listed.

A Few Resources to Help in Your Personal Journey

Resources and articles are listed below to provide emotional support and information to those who identify as victims of abuse. While many of these groups may advocate a pro-active response directed at the clergy and staff, it is not this website's intent to suggest or promote litigation, confrontation, or protest. Further actions are the choices of the individual reader.

Index

Discussion & Support Groups
Sexual Abuse in the Church
Sexual Abuse Survivors' Support Groups and Advocates
Psychological Resources
DNA Testing
Addictions and Domestic Violence
Articles Pertaining to Abuse Issues
Quotes
Your Participation in this Website and On-Line Discussions & Important Note Regarding Sexual Abuse Aligations


Discussion & Support Groups

"Village Memories"
Join other former residents for an open and free discussion of memories and issues. Share information and gain support among others who share common experiences and seek closure. A full description appears on the opening page of the discussion group website.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sjvillage

Pinnacle Peak Recovery
Comprehensive list of support groups.
https://www.pinnaclepeakrecovery.com/drug-alcohol-addiction-support-groups/

Sexual Abuse in the Church

Catholic Church Sexual Abuse Cases - Wikipedia Article
This is an extensive encyclopedia article dealing with the subject of sexual abuse within the Roman Catholic Church.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sexual_abuse_cases

BishopAccountability.org
This website documents the abuse crisis in the Roman Catholic Church and contains the database of publically accused priests in the United States.
http://www.bishop-accountability.org

Sexual Abuse Survivors' Support Groups and Advocates

SNAP (the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests)
The nation's largest, oldest, and most active support group for women and men who claim they have been abused by religious authority figures. SNAP is an independent and confidential organization with no connections with any church or church officials. The site is loaded with information, testimonials, and other resources.
http://www.snapnetwork.org

Male Survivor
The national organization against male sexual victimization, committed to preventing, healing, and eliminating all forms of sexual victimization of boys and men through treatment, research, education, advocacy, and activism.
http://www.malesurvivor.org

Advocate Web
Advocate Web is a nonprofit organization providing information and resources to promote awareness and understanding of the issues involved in the exploitation of persons by trusted helping professionals.
http://www.advocateweb.org/hope/default.asp

Psychological Resources

The Guide to PTSD Psst Traumatic Stress Disorder
http://www.recoveryconnection.org/addiction-post-traumatic-stress-disorder-treatment

National Center for PTSD
A program of the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, this website is provided as an educational resource concerning post traumatic stress disorder and other enduring consequences of traumatic stress.
http://www.ptsd.va.gov

The Wounded Healer Journal
Support, network for victims and mental health professionals
http://twhj.com

J. Flowers Health Institute - PTSD Self-Test
713-715-1618
http://jflowershealth.com/pstd-self-test

DNA Testing

KnowYourDNA.com
This is a source for finding all things related to DNA. Learn more about four family history.
http://www.KnowYourDNA.com
Guide: "Where to Start With Your Raw DNA Data": https:knowyourdna.com/guides/which-dna-test-is-the-most-accurate

Addictions and Domestic Violence

Although not directly related to issues of being an orphan, sexual abuse, or other issues related to a stay at the Village, these links may be of interest to some of our readers. By including these resources, we do not auusme that anyone is or were suffering any of these additions based on their connection with the Village. These resources were placed here by request of various third parties and as an additional service of this site.

Alcohol Rehab Help
Informational website on many forms of addiction
https://alcoholrehabhelp.org/addiction/

Pinnacle Peak Recovery
Comprehensive list of support groups.
https://www.pinnaclepeakrecovery.com/drug-alcohol-addiction-support-groups/

Domestic Abuse Links
Provided by Lisa Walker

Spring Hill Recovery
Addovtion recovery
https://springhillrecovery.com

AddictionGroup.org
Fact-based resource on drug and alcohol addiction and treatment.
http://www.addictiongroup.org

RehabSpot.com
This is a website that provides treatment and recovery resources for a variety of addictions.
RehabSpot.com
Trama and Drug Addiction: https://www.rehabspot.com/treatment/clinical/trauma-resolution
Contact: Sam Huss, Community Outreach Specialist 800-586-9670

Domestic Abuse and Addiction Guide
Domestic violence is the intentional use of emotional, psychological, sexual or physical force by one family member or intimate partner to control another. Victims of domestic violence who struggle with addiction face significant barriers to receiving treatment, but programs that effectively address addiction and abuse-related trauma are available. This guide is published by DrugRehab.com

http://www.drugrehab.com/guides/domestic-abuse

Guide to Signs of Addiction
Recognizing the signs of addiction is the first step to getting help for yourself or guiding someone you care about to rehab. For this reason, it is critical to have an understanding of the signs of addiction. There are behavioral, physical, and psychological signs of addiction. This guide is published by Advanced Recovery Systems

http://www.advancedrecoverysystems.com/signs-of-addiction

The Recovery Village (addictions)
https://www.therecoveryvillage.com

UK-Rehab
24 hour advice helpline and website for substance abuse issues: https://www.uk-rehab.com

Primrose Lodge
Addiction reconery facility: http://www.primroselodge.com

Drug Dangers
A website to educate the public about the dangers of perscription drug bause and defective drugs and devices: htttp://www.DrugDangers.com

Addiction Helper (UK)
https://www.addictionhelper.com

Drug and Alcohol-Related Sleep Disorders
https://www.bestmattressreviews.com/addiction-and-sleep

Monarch Shores - Christian Based Addiction Rehab
https://www.monarchshores.com/treatment/christian

Help.org
Help.org is a community organization dedicated to empowering people suffering from substance abuse addiction with tools and resources to start their personal journey toward recovery. We create and publishes comprehensive, unbiased, free web-based resources that have been featured and is referenced by many governmental agencies and organizations across the web.http://www.help.org

How to Rebuild Your Finances After Rehab
http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/rebuild-finances-after-rehab.php

Tuck is Promoting Sleep Health Awareness
How alcohol negatively impacts sleep
Sleep problems associated with addiction and recovery
Non-drug therapies for sleep disorders

Drug Rehab Connections
Information and support
The Drug Rehab Connections community is made up of those who want to help and give back. We are here to share our stories of recovery and hope as we begin the steps together towards rehab and recovery.
https://www.drugrehabconnections.com

American Addiction Centers
https://americanaddictioncenters.org/rehab-guide/addiction-and-violence

Domestic Abuse and Women with Alcohol Abuse Issues
https://www.alcohol.org/women/domestic-abuse-and-alcoholism

Project Know - Understanding Addiction
Addiction treatment centers in New Jersey
https://www.projectknow.com/find/new-jersey

Sunshine Behavioral Health - Domestic Violence Resource
An extensive resource covering many aspects of domestic abuse and violence. (248) 653-6583
https://www.sunshinebehavioralhealth.com/resources/domestic-violence/

AddictionResource.net
Get help with drug and alcohol addiction
http://www.addictionresource.net

Drug Rehab USA
National USA Substance Abuse Treatment Directory & Information Hub
1-855-912-7180
https://drugrehabus.org/

Addiction Rehab Centers
Alcohol and drug recovery program.877-659-4555
http://www.addictionrehabcenters.com


Articles Pertaining to Abuse Issues

State, church officials probing abuse claims at now-defunct orphanage
A clipping from The Associated Press that provides an overview of what has been alledged and by whom. READ>>

Selling My Body
by Dennis Rhodes
In 1989, two years before receiving his HIV-positive diagnosis, poet and writer Dennis Rhodes wrote a series of candid letters to New York psychotherapist Daniel Bloom. This letter recounts an incident from Dennis's childhood in which he went on a begging mission. Clicking "read" will take you to the Body Positive" website.
READ>>

Editor's Note: There were many responsible, caring, and loving nuns and lay staff at St. Joseph's Village and it should not be assumed that all were characterized by the accounts in these or any other story on this site. The views expressed by this author do not necessarily reflect statements of fact, views, or opinions of this website, its owner, or other affiliated party. Please see our policy statement regarding alledged abuses.


Quotes

A few quotes shed light on some historical perspectives regarding corpral punishment in religious environments.

"The old days, in the '50s, you would hear about kids receiving corporal punishment -- the Christian Brothers were famous for rapping kids on their knuckles. But it crosses the line when you start having to disrobe, and it becomes, by definition, sexualized in some way."
-Dr. Mary Gail Frawley O'Dea

"And the fact it's not in public is a problem. Corporal punishment was administered in public and was open in the classroom for everyone to witness. It wasn't done secretly." Dr. Mary Gail Frawley-O'Dea, noted psychologist and sexual abuse expert who was chosen by American bishops to speak at their conference in Dallas in June of 2002.
-Dr. Mary Gail Frawley O'Dea

These are quotes taken from the former website published by Katherine.


Your Participation in this Website and On-Line Discussions & Important Note Regarding Sexual Abuse Aligations

It is alleged that abuses happened to a select group of children and not all children were involved, and therefore, those participating in our discussion group or submitting materials to this website are not to be assumed to have been involved in these incidents nor should it be assumed that they became abusers due to their exposure to abuse. It is not to be a taken as a shameful thing to participate in any alumni activity. Likewise it should not be assumed that any past or present members of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace were involved in such alledged actions unless proven in a court of law.

IMPORTANT NOTE : The original website at stjosephsvillage.com, maintained by Katherin and which has been a source of refuge for those who identify as victims of abuse has been deactivated. This URL has been acquired by Jim Brown / Optisonics Productions and now links directly to this website. We sincerely thank Katherine for having forstered this renewed interest in St. Jposeph's Village and look forward to her continued involvement in this alumni community. We also note that Dominic Scalzone who first began a renewed interest in the Village with his former nostalgic website.