St. Joseph's Village, Rockleigh, NJ

RESOURCES FOR THOSE WHO HAD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES & HUMAN SERVICES RESOURCES

The Village was a big place, and spanned some 15 years of time. It is easy to see why an estimated one thousand or more children would have dramatically different experiences. There are former residents who remember the Village as the best thing that could have been a part of their lives and support the good work of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace. Unfortunately, there are some who recall their stay at the Village to be a traumatic time in their lives due incidents of physical and sexual abuse by some adults. This page is not intended to acuse any former staff of wrong doing, but to offer emotional support and closure to a segment of alumni who feel they need these resources for their personal growth. Traumatic experiences often lead to other psychological issues, domestic violence, and addictions later inlife and it for that reason that we include a list of some services for dealing with and learning more about these issues.

Those wishing to have their organization's human services resource listed here must use the RESOURCE SUBMISSION FORM. Please do not e-mail us with submissions - they will not be answered.

Index to this Page

Discussion & Support Groups
Sexual Abuse in the Church
Sexual Abuse Survivors' Support Groups and Advocates
Psychological Resources
DNA Testing
Articles Pertaining to Abuse Issues
Quotes
Addictions and Domestic Violence
Support / Information for Those With Medical Conditions
Your Participation in this Website and On-Line Discussions & Important Note Regarding Sexual Abuse Aligations
Submitting Links

LEGAL NOTICE: This website does not directly or indirectly state or imply that their was, nor does it deny there was child abuse at the St. Joseph's Village. It would be deemed libelous for this website to state or imply that there was abuse prior to any court conviction. Some materials on this website make reference to allegations by some former residents of St. Joseph's Village regarding their personal experiences with physical and sexual abuses by some clergy and lay staff of the former St. Joseph's Village. This material is solely the view, opinion, or personal account of the individual author and do not necessarily reflect the stated facts, views, and opinions of this website, its owner, or other any other affiliated parties. Furthermore, I (We) am in no way intending to or currently involved in any court action against any party regarding said allegations. There were many fine, respectable, and loving staff members at the Village. It should not be assumed that any past or present members of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace or any clergy or lay person were involved in such behavior unless proven in a court of law.

A Few Resources to Help in Your Personal Journey

Resources and articles are listed below to provide emotional support and information to those who identify as victims of abuse. While many of these groups may advocate a pro-active response directed at the clergy and staff, it is not this website's intent to suggest or promote litigation, confrontation, or protest. Further actions are the choices of the individual reader.

Discussion & Support Groups

"Village Memories" on Facebook Join other former residents for an open and free discussion of memories and issues. Share information and gain support among others who share common experiences and seek closure. A full description appears on the opening page of the discussion group Facebook page.
Visit discussion group on Facebook

Pinnacle Peak Recovery Comprehensive list of support groups.
https://www.pinnaclepeakrecovery.com/drug-alcohol-addiction-support-groups/

Sexual Abuse in the Church

Catholic Church Sexual Abuse Cases - Wikipedia Article This is an extensive encyclopedia article dealing with the subject of sexual abuse within the Roman Catholic Church.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sexual_abuse_cases

BishopAccountability.org
This website documents the abuse crisis in the Roman Catholic Church and contains the database of publically accused priests in the United States.
http://www.bishop-accountability.org

Sexual Abuse Survivors' Support Groups and Advocates

SNAP (the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests)
The nation's largest, oldest, and most active support group for women and men who claim they have been abused by religious authority figures. SNAP is an independent and confidential organization with no connections with any church or church officials. The site is loaded with information, testimonials, and other resources.
http://www.snapnetwork.org

Male Survivor
The national organization against male sexual victimization, committed to preventing, healing, and eliminating all forms of sexual victimization of boys and men through treatment, research, education, advocacy, and activism.
http://www.malesurvivor.org

Advocate Web
Advocate Web is a nonprofit organization providing information and resources to promote awareness and understanding of the issues involved in the exploitation of persons by trusted helping professionals.
http://www.advocateweb.org/hope/default.asp

Psychological Resources

Overcoming PTSD and Driving Anxiety
A guide by Gervelis Law Firm about overcoming PTSD and driving anxiety.
https://www.gervelislaw.com/blog/how-to-get-over-driving-anxiety/

How To Manage Your Emotions While Driving - The Stephens Law Firm
Mental health challenges, especially during times of crisis, can make driving particularly stressful and dangerous. Emotions like anxiety, fear, and frustration can impair concentration, slow reaction times, and increase the risk of accidents. To support drivers in these situations, we’ve created a new guide with practical tips for managing emotions while on the road.
joestephenslaw.com/managing-your-emotions-while-driving/

Mental Health After Traumatic Accident
A helpful and supportive guide to mental health after experiencing a traumatic experience. Organization: Faah & Farah
https://www.farahandfarah.com/traumatic-accidents-mental-health/

Perlego - College Mental Resources
This article addresses some of the problematic situations college students face and provides resources for finding help while keeping most students' financial and logistical limitations in mind.
https://www.perlego.com/knowledge/info/college-mental-health-resources/

The Guide to PTSD Psst Traumatic Stress Disorder
http://www.recoveryconnection.org/addiction-post-traumatic-stress-disorder-treatment

National Center for PTSD
A program of the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, this website is provided as an educational resource concerning post traumatic stress disorder and other enduring consequences of traumatic stress.
http://www.ptsd.va.gov

The Wounded Healer Journal
Support, network for victims and mental health professionals
http://twhj.com

J. Flowers Health Institute - PTSD Self-Test
713-715-1618
http://jflowershealth.com/pstd-self-test

HealthMatch
A detailed mental health guide that explains the many variations of mental conditions, their symptoms, and treatments. 
https://healthmatch.io/mental-health 

How to Calm Anxiety
This website provides a comprehensive guide to recognizing and coping with anxiety.
https://www.fingerprintforsuccess.com/blog/how-to-calm-anxiety  

DNA Testing

KnowYourDNA.com
This is a source for finding all things related to DNA. Learn more about four family history.
http://www.KnowYourDNA.com
Guide: "Where to Start With Your Raw DNA Data"
https:knowyourdna.com/guides/which-dna-test-is-the-most-accurate

Articles Pertaining to Abuse Issues

State, church officials probing abuse claims at now-defunct orphanage
A clipping from The Associated Press that provides an overview of what has been alledged and by whom. [read]

"Selling My Body" by Dennis Rhodes In 1989, two years before receiving his HIV-positive diagnosis, poet and writer Dennis Rhodes wrote a series of candid letters to New York psychotherapist Daniel Bloom. This letter recounts an incident from Dennis's childhood in which he went on a begging mission. Clicking "read" will take you to the Body Positive" website. [read]

Addictions and Domestic Violence

Although not directly related to issues of being an orphan, sexual abuse, or other issues related to a stay at the Village, these links may be of interest to some of our readers. Many people who have has traumatic experiences may be experiences other issues such as addictions in later life. By including these resources, we do not auusme that anyone is or were suffering any of these issues based on their connection with the Village. These resources were placed here by request of various third parties and as an additional service of this site. In somecases they are connected with profit making organizations and this website receives no compensation. We may discontinue this listing in the future and direct viewers to search for such services on-line. 

Semaglutide and Alcohol: What’s Safe?
http://onlinesemaglutide.org/semaglutide-and-alcohol

Meirowitz & Wasserberg is committed to promoting safety, especially when it comes to driving. They put together a research guide that compares the dangers of drunk driving, drowsy driving, and distracted driving.
https://www.samndan.com/drunk-vs-drowsy-vs-distracted-driving/

Crestview Recovery
Crestview Recovery is a forward-thinking residential and outpatient drug rehab center in Portland, Oregon. https://www.crestviewrecovery.com/

Substance Use Prevention and Recovery Resources in the U.S.
https://www.addicted.org

Avery Smith, Health Promotion Advocate
https://www.graniterecoverycenters.com/mental-health/effects-of-adverse-childhood-experiences-aces/
https://definingwellness.com/resources/how-trauma-affects-the-brain/

LGBTQ Treatment for Addiction: Finding a Friendly Place
Everyone deserves quality treatment when it comes to substance abuse, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation.
https://www.discoverynj.org/lgbtq-treatment-for-addiction-finding-a-friendly-place/

How Long Does Hydrocodone Stay In Your System? How long does hydrocodone stay in your system exactly?
This site explors this common drug, it’s characteristics, and dangers.
https://psyclarityhealth.com/how-long-does-hydrocodone-stay-in-your-system/

Substance Abuse and Domestic Violence
Addiction treatment resources in Washington State
https://freebythesea.com/addiction-resources/domestic-violence/

Driving Under the Influence of Marijuana
With more and more states legalizing recreational marijuana, it’s easy to overlook the dangers that still exist when consuming the substance. Driving under the influence of marijuana comes with its own unique set of risks motorists should know.
https://www.nstlaw.com/guides/driving-under-the-influence-of-marijuana/

Addiction: Causes, Symptoms & Evidence-Based Treatment
Addiction is a chronic disease that affects the brain and body. There are a number of substances, including alcohol, that can trigger addiction, which is complicated by family history and genetics, mental and behavioral health, environment, and more.
https://bocarecoverycenter.com/addiction/

Types of Therapy for Drug and Alcohol Addiction
Deciding to look or attend drug and alcohol treatment might be a difficult decision, but ultimately a beneficial and rewarding one. If you are considering this treatment for yourself or exploring it for someone else, you should become familiar with the different treatment options, including therapy for drug addiction. https://onlinemftprograms.com/therapy-for-drug-and-alcohol-addiction/

Impact of Alcohol Consumption on Public Healt
A through study of the impact of alcohol on public health.
www.masterspublichealth.com/impact-of-alcohol-consumption-on-public-health

SUPE: Substance Use Prevention Education
Parent's Guide to Fentanyl: This comprehensive guide equips parents with valuable information, including tips, warning signs, and helpful videos/articles. It empowers parents to protect their children from the dangers of fentanyl and make informed decisions regarding substance use.
Protecting Children From Online Drug Dealers: In the digital age, online drug dealing poses a significant threat. Our resource provides essential tools to safeguard children, including the "Emoji code" to identify online drug dealing, insights into the Darkweb, and online safety measures.

AddictionResource.net
Fine the best drug and alcohol rehab center near you.
https://www.addictionresource.net

How Drugs and Alcohol Affect Oral Health - By Zocdoc
For many individuals, maintaining proper oral hygiene can be a challenge. For those that may be handling substance abuse, this challenge becomes even more daunting. Not only does substance abuse cause lasting effects on one’s oral health, but painful dental issues may also become a reason for continued drug use.
https://www.zocdoc.com/blog/how-drugs-and-alcohol-affects-oral-health/

Northern Illinois Recovery Center
Northern Illinois Recovery Center is located in serene Crystal Lake, IL, just far enough from Chicago to offer a peaceful, personalized recovery experience with a world-renowned staff. Our JAHCO-accredited center offers detox, residential, PHP, IOP, outpatient, aftercare, and virtual care options for addiction and mental health.
https://www.northernillinoisrecovery.com

Arrow Passage Recovery
Addiction and dual diagnosis treatment in Massillon, Ohio
https://www.arrowpassage.com
Top five struggles of the LGBTQ community that lead to addiction
https://arrowpassage.com/top-five-struggles-lgbtq-community/

Alcohol Detox
Article: Alcohol detox is considered one of the most dangerous to experience, but with care, treatment, and medications, it can be a safer and more comfortable process.
https://www.alcoholhelp.com/treatment/alcohol-detox/

Mystic Mag 
150+ Addiction Resources and Statistics from around the World
https://www.mysticmag.com/news/addiction-resources-and-statistics/

Definition of Drug Misuse, Abuse & Addiction
This article breaks down drug misuse, from using medication not as directed, to using illegal substances. It's a must-read for anyone wanting to understand the difference between misuse and abuse. It discusses how misuse can lead to abuse and addiction, providing a clear picture of this dangerous progression. This knowledge can help you recognize and address these issues early. Lastly, the article offers practical tips on preventing prescription drug misuse and discuss various treatment options for substance use disorder. This information can be a lifeline for those struggling with addiction or their loved ones. The article is provided by https://www.addictiongroup.org
Goto: https://www.addictiongroup.org/resources/drug-misuse-definition/

DetoxRehabs.net
This organization's objective is to connect people with addiction, and their families, with the best detox and inpatient treatment program for their recovery needs. With their extensive directory of addiction treatment programs in every U.S. state, they can assist in getting the help you or your loved one needs to overcome addiction and mental health disorders.
https://www.detoxrehabs.net

Alcohol Rehab Help
Informational website on many forms of addiction
https://alcoholrehabhelp.org/addiction/

Pinnacle Peak Recovery
Comprehensive list of support groups.
https://www.pinnaclepeakrecovery.com/drug-alcohol-addiction-support-groups/

Domestic Abuse Links
Provided by Lisa Walker

AddictionGroup.org
Fact-based resource on drug and alcohol addiction and treatment.
http://www.addictiongroup.org

Spring Hill Recovery
https://springhillrecovery.com

RehabSpot.com
This is a website that provides treatment and recovery resources for a variety of addictions.
RehabSpot.com
Trama and Drug Addiction:
https://www.rehabspot.com/treatment/clinical/trauma-resolution
Contact: Sam Huss, Community Outreach Specialist 800-586-9670

Domestic Abuse and Addiction Guide
Domestic violence is the intentional use of emotional, psychological, sexual or physical force by one family member or intimate partner to control another. Victims of domestic violence who struggle with addiction face significant barriers to receiving treatment, but programs that effectively address addiction and abuse-related trauma are available. This guide is published by DrugRehab.com
http://www.drugrehab.com/guides/domestic-abuse

Guide to Signs of Addiction
Recognizing the signs of addiction is the first step to getting help for yourself or guiding someone you care about to rehab. For this reason, it is critical to have an understanding of the signs of addiction. There are behavioral, physical, and psychological signs of addiction. This guide is published by Advanced Recovery Systems
http://www.advancedrecoverysystems.com/signs-of-addiction

The Recovery Village (addictions)
https://www.therecoveryvillage.com

UK-Rehab
24 hour advice helpline and website for substance abuse issues: https://www.uk-rehab.com

Primrose Lodge
Addiction reconery facility: http://www.primroselodge.com

Drug Dangers
A website to educate the public about the dangers of perscription drug bause and defective drugs and devices:
htttp://www.DrugDangers.com

Addiction Helper (UK)
https://www.addictionhelper.com

Drug and Alcohol-Related Sleep Disorders
https://www.bestmattressreviews.com/addiction-and-sleep

Monarch Shores
Christian Based Addiction Rehab
https://www.monarchshores.com/treatment/christian

Help.org
Help.org is a community organization dedicated to empowering people suffering from substance abuse addiction with tools and resources to start their personal journey toward recovery. We create and publishes comprehensive, unbiased, free web-based resources that have been featured and is referenced by many governmental agencies and organizations across the web. http://www.help.org

How to Rebuild Your Finances After Rehab
http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/rebuild-finances-after-rehab.php

Tuck is Promoting Sleep Health Awareness
How alcohol negatively impacts sleep
Sleep problems associated with addiction and recovery
Non-drug therapies for sleep disorders

Drug Rehab Connections
Information and support
The Drug Rehab Connections community is made up of those who want to help and give back. We are here to share our stories of recovery and hope as we begin the steps together towards rehab and recovery.
https://www.drugrehabconnections.com

American Addiction Centers
We are a leading national organization that is dedicated to helping people with their mental health and substance abuse problems. 

• A Guide to Addiction and Recovery for African Americans - Provides helpful statistics, looks at the differences in substance abuse patterns across the black population, and treatment options to consider. 
• Demographics and Addiction - African Americans may experience more barriers to treatment than other groups, this guide can help one become aware of payment options and how to find providers who understand the issues unique to this population.
• How Different Cultures Deal with Alcoholism - Learn why culture, religion, race, social circles, socioeconomic status, and home environment can be a factor in how a person treats alcohol abuse.
• Alcohol and Drug Abuse Among African Americans - Provides helpful statistics, looks at the differences in substance abuse patterns across the black population, and treatment options to consider. 
  
  

Domestic Abuse and Women with Alcohol Abuse Issues
https://www.alcohol.org/women/domestic-abuse-and-alcoholism

Project Know - Understanding Addiction
Addiction treatment centers in New Jersey
https://www.projectknow.com/find/new-jersey

Sunshine Behavioral Health - Domestic Violence Resource
An extensive resource covering many aspects of domestic abuse and violence. (248) 653-6583
https://www.sunshinebehavioralhealth.com/resources/domestic-violence/

AddictionResource.net
Get help with drug and alcohol addiction
http://www.addictionresource.net

Drug Rehab USA
National USA Substance Abuse Treatment Directory & Information Hub
1-855-912-7180
https://drugrehabus.org/

Addiction Rehab Centers
Alcohol and drug recovery program.877-659-4555
http://www.addictionrehabcenters.com

Rehab Path Luxury
A rehab center that caters to a luxury environment
https://luxuryrehabs.com/condition/trauma

Support / Information for Those With Medical Conditions

The Cerebral Palsy Toolkit
This guide can help you find support, cope with the changes, and explore ways to set your child on a path to a bright future.
https://www.levinperconti.com/birth-injury/cerebral-palsy/guide-toolkit/

Health Care Resources for Veterans
https://www.sokolovelaw.com/about-us/healthcare-resources-for-veterans/

Lung Cancer Group
According to the American Cancer Society, 238,340 new cases of lung cancer will be diagnosed this year. This organization offers free educational resources and provides accurate, current information about lung cancer and its health impacts. Our mission is to raise awareness about lung cancer and other asbestos-related diseases.  https://www.lungcancergroup.com/

The Simmons Cancer Institute at Southern Illinois University
The Institute is a community-based patient care, research, education and outreach program established to improve cancer care.
https://www.simmonsfirm.com/about-us/giving-back/cancer-institute/

Cerereble Palsey Center
Unique challenges for veteran families with special needs children
https://www.cerebralpalsyguide.com
https://www.cerebralpalsyguide.com/community/veterans/

Mesothelioma Support
Mesothelioma support is essential for people living with this aggressive cancer. Patients and their caregivers often struggle emotionally and benefit from help in the form of therapy, counseling, and mesothelioma support groups.
https://mesothelioma.net/mesothelioma-support/

Quotes

A few quotes shed light on some historical perspectives regarding corpral punishment in religious environments.

"The old days, in the '50s, you would hear about kids receiving corporal punishment -- the Christian Brothers were famous for rapping kids on their knuckles. But it crosses the line when you start having to disrobe, and it becomes, by definition, sexualized in some way."
-Dr. Mary Gail Frawley O'Dea

"And the fact it's not in public is a problem. Corporal punishment was administered in public and was open in the classroom for everyone to witness. It wasn't done secretly." Dr. Mary Gail Frawley-O'Dea, noted psychologist and sexual abuse expert who was chosen by American bishops to speak at their conference in Dallas in June of 2002.
-Dr. Mary Gail Frawley O'Dea

These are quotes taken from the former website published by Katherine.

Your Participation in this Website and On-Line Discussions & Important Note Regarding Sexual Abuse Aligations

It is alleged that abuses happened to a select group of children and not all children were involved, and therefore, those participating in our discussion group or submitting materials to this website are not to be assumed to have been involved in these incidents nor should it be assumed that they became abusers due to their exposure to abuse. It is not to be a taken as a shameful thing to participate in any alumni activity. Likewise it should not be assumed that any past or present members of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Peace were involved in such alledged actions unless proven in a court of law.

Submitting Links

Those wishing to have their organization's human services resource listed here must use the RESOURCE SUBMISSION FORM. Please do not e-mail us with submissions - they will not be answered.